The Other Half of Asperger Syndrome (Autism Spectrum Disorder): A Guide to Living in an Intimate Relationship with a Partner who is on the Autism Spectrum Second Edition
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Does your other half have Asperger Syndrome or do you suspect that he or she is on the autism spectrum? This quick and helpful relationships guide provides all the information you need for relationship success with your ASD partner.
In the second edition of this best-selling book, Maxine Aston draws on over a decade of experience working with couples affected by Autism Spectrum Disorder. Updates include reference to recent research and information on same sex relationships, sensory issues and pregnancy. Full of bite-size tips and advice, the book explains Asperger Syndrome, discusses whether or not seeking an autism diagnosis will help, and offers simple strategies for coping with a range of relationship challenges including communication, social, and intimacy difficulties.
Publisher : Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Publication date : February 21, 2014
Edition : 2nd
Language : English
Print length : 136 pages
ISBN-10 : 1849054983
ISBN-13 : 978-1849054980
Item Weight : 6.7 ounces
Dimensions : 5.43 x 0.79 x 8.43 inches
Best Sellers Rank: #113,414 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #58 in Children’s Autism Spectrum #93 in Parenting Books on Children with Disabilities #303 in Love & Romance (Books)
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Laird Bishop –
Finally, answers!
My experience of a quarter of a century with an ASD wife had profoundly negative effects on me. It felt like I was throwing all of my love into a black hole, and it took a toll on me physically, mentally, and emotionally. A sense of futility was my constant companion, and I went so far as to question my own sanity.In a clear and concise manner, this book revealed that my wife’s behaviors were explainable. It also revealed that my own turmoil was not a unique reaction to the situation. It offered the perspective I needed to regain confidence in my own sanity. It gave me actionable levers I could pull to improve the situation.The sun seems a little brighter today as a result of reading this book. It comes with a certain sense of closure even though the situation will be ongoing for a lifetime, but it also offers hope for some mitigation with actionable insights.I caution those with a female ASD partner to be prepared for the fact that the inclusion of a chapter dedicated to male ASD partners stands in contrast to the absence of such a chapter for female ASD partners. While this was off-putting at first, I found a wealth of perspective for us sprinkled throughout the text, and it really does not diminish the overall value. I would, however, urge the author to consider for a third edition the fact that those with a female ASD partner, already being in the minority, already find a paucity of awareness about their plight, and might appreciate the additional support.
Mary Denny –
Good
Good resource
J. Barton –
Very helpful and practical!
Very helpful for those first realizing their partner might be on the autism spectrum or has received a positive diagnosis of such. Very affirming for the neurotypical partner, “you aren’t crazy!” Practicals on how to handle typical situations that might arise in a neurodiverse relationship.
J.C. –
Great Condition
Super well packaged and came before I expected it! Book was in great condition! Thanks!
LT Reviewer –
Slim Pickings for Books on the Subject
This is a difficult book to read if you bristle at gross generalizations and unsubstantiated claims.Just one example on page 23: “women are more likely to choose a partner to whom they can relate whereas men are more likely to choose a partner who compensates for what they find difficult or cannot do.” Instead of actual research, the author draws on her own personal experience to justify her conclusions (eg, “My experience certainly backs…”) So, I’m afraid there’s just not a lot of reliable information here.
Brenda –
Wow! Amazing Book!
I laughed & I cried. It was like the author was reading my mind.This book is pure gold for anyone in a relationship with an ASD partner.I couldn’t put the book down. Explanations, understanding, relief, hope & strategies; and, a realization that you’re not alone. One of the most impactful books that I have ever read.
Brandi Quinn –
Book
Totally helps me see his Asperger’s ways from a clinical side instead of taking the non empathetic ways to heart
Sarah T. –
Simple, direct
This reads very much like an extended brochure. It is helpful, especially if this is your first read on the topic. A great place to start. Ultimately, I doubt other books will do more than elaborate on the simple truth: if you are partners with an Aspie, you will need to have realistic expectations, learn how to communicate in a very concise and direct manner, and draw firm boundaries to protect your selfhood.
V –
This book has made me understand many of the big questions of my life. Being raised by an Aspie mother, being married to an Aspie man, and having an adolescent Aspie girl, I have just begun to understand most of the suffering I have gone through. I have faith that my husband and daughter find themselves their own condition in a therapy we have just strated. I feel torn between fellings of relieve and sadness. Many thanks to Maxine to share her knowledge.
Jeans –
Very informative
Kathryn R. –
This book made me not want to give up on my person… Its not going to be an easy road but will be worth it in the end.
TURNER MERRYL –
Un livre qui offre enfin une perspective différente sur le syndrome. Intéressant d’avoir cette vision du couple et très instructif !
Graham sewell –
Fascinating insight for person with Asperger’s and especially highlighting what the partner has to put up with